Tips on how to sparkle with your inner light this Diwali

Diwali is about mithai, scrumptious food, dinners with family, new clothes and all that goes with the celebrations, but what else can you do to galvanise the true meaning of Diwali?

Diwali is about light over darkness and marking the return of Lord Ram from his exile after 14 years, but what does this mean for you as a person and human being? You will light all those Diyas and candles this Diwali to light up your house, but what about your inner light? As well as the Diyas and candles, your inner light should shine through to your loved ones all the time, but especially around Diwali.

Approach everyone with love and compassion and let go of old resentments 

We will no doubt have to spend time with members of the family with whom we do not have good relationships with. Do not hold onto old wounds as these eat away at your insides, not theirs. 

Take regular intervals and recharge your batteries

Even a 5-minute break can work wonders. It can be exhausting trying to get it all in, cooking, cleaning, and conversations all at the same time.

Include small acts of kindness leading up to the frenzy of Diwali day

The festive season is about compassion, not just presents, food and parties. Do not forget to be kind to others. It can be a small gesture like giving way to a car in heavy traffic, helping someone with loading their shopping, smiling, or giving a small, unexpected gift to your hairdresser / local shopkeeper.

Accept all gifts with genuine gratitude instead of being fussy

The people who have given you presents have put in some or a lot of effort in getting the present to you. From the point of thinking about what to buy, looking for the item, buying the item, buying wrapping paper, wrapping it, bringing it and giving it to you. 

Reflect on all the good things in your lives and give gratitude

In conversations with family and friends during the celebrations, talk about good times instead of moaning and complaining. You can even play a game where you gather ‘good things’ on post-it notes and build a gratitude pot. The person with the most in their pot is the winner.

However, if you practice the above tips and draw out your inner shine, it will ultimately make you the winner, not only during Diwali but throughout your life.

Hansa Pankhania is an Author, Wellbeing Coach, Counsellor, Speaker.

www.hansapankhania.com